The urgent need to address unhealthy family violence and mental crisis in Papua New Guinea.

F1. Ruby Anne Laua

In response to the overwhelming crisis of unhealthy family violence-related mental health issues in Papua New Guinea, urgent action is needed to address and alleviate the suffering endured by victims. The lack of effective social and legal support systems, coupled with the influence of money, social power dynamics, and societal disregard for such issues, has created a climate where relief and justice are elusive.

It is essential to recognize that the mental health challenges faced by victims are not isolated incidents. Their suffering is known to the victims themselves, their immediate families, relatives, friends, spouses, and the wider communities. This crisis is occurring right before our eyes, yet even law enforcement agencies fail to address it, dismissing it as a "family problem" that should be resolved at home.

Furthermore, the families of the victims, particularly their parents and blood relatives, often downplay the severity of the situation, ignoring red flags that indicate danger. The victims' hope for relief is continuously suppressed, leaving them trapped in fear and unable to advocate for themselves due to their shattered confidence and lack of support.

F2. Jennelyn Kennedy 

The attached photos (figure 1, 2, & figure 3) depict the tragic consequences of family violence. Figure 1 murder has been sentenced to eleven years of hard labor by the national courts for murder, figure 2 culprit received a life sentence, while the case of figure 3 is still pending or in authorities hands.

F3. Imelda Tupi Timanda 

Many cases go unreported, hidden beneath the influence of social power and wealth. It is critical for parents and communities to be aware of following highly dangerous warning signs indicating a need for immediate intervention, and to respond urgently to help the victims.

• Bruises all their bodies and their faces.

• Kitchen or bush knifes have been used to attack the victims.
• Tiring the victims legs and arms with rope or wires.

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  F3. Imelda Tupi Manda

  
  Locking the victims for long time in the house.

• Taken the victims in the dark places and attacking them.

• Guns or any sharp instruments have been used to attack the victims. 

• The person frequently on alcohol and watching violence movies.

• Telling the victims that I will kill you.

• Naking them in the houses in front of their children and others.

• The attackers is always in possession of sharp or dangerous weapons.

• Pushing the victims over the running vehicles. 

• Pouring hot waters and dangerous liquids all over the victims bodies, or throwing flame on their bodies.

• Pushing sticks or sharp instruments into the vagina or anus or mouth. 

What to do!

1. Concrete steps that can be taken include immediately removing the victims from their abusive environment, ensuring their safety by isolating them from their attackers, and promptly reporting the matter to the police. It is equally important to remove the children from harm's way and provide them with the necessary protection and care.

2. Physical health and psychological support should not be overlooked. The victims must receive medical attention from doctors, therapy from counseling psychologists, and support from social workers. Creating a protective and nurturing environment for the victims within their families is vital to their recovery and well-being.

3. In order to address this crisis effectively, education and awareness within the community are essential. It is necessary to educate individuals about the devastating impact of family violence and cultivate a shift in societal attitudes towards this issue. Moreover, advocating for stronger laws and policies against family violence, and collaborating with local and international organizations, can help facilitate effective intervention and support for the victims.

4.Finally, providing economic support and resources is crucial in enabling victims to regain their independence and rebuild their lives. By addressing this crisis comprehensively and collaboratively, we can work towards creating a safer and healthier Papua New Guinea for all its citizens.

Counselling Interventions Works

Papua New Guineans are not seeking the benefits of professional counselling services. It plays an important role in saving the lives of people and also improve their quality of life. Furthermore, it assists people to navigate their future with full of confidence.

The government-private sectors and the public are not aware of the benefits of counselling services. How these services can contribute to the worker's wellbeing and improvement of the business goal.

The workplace managers lack mental health leadership skills. They should be well placed to rise the corporate leadership bar. 

The business should focus on mental health interpersonal leadership skills training. to drive the organization's business objectives, and achieve the overall business goal.

Both private and public (health)  institutions should start creating psychotherapists positions in their structure. The medicine alone will not treat patients’ conditions, most patients admitted into the hospitals are with mental health conditions so to treat the cause, such services are required. On the other, the Workers are silently suffering from the mental health crisis as well.

If your organization is experiencing the following issues, it’s an indication that mental health issues require higher management’s urgent attention.

Stealing from the organization; coming late to work; not attending meetings; not attending to work; Increase in injuries; not wearing work uniforms neat and discharging unhealthy behaviours at work are some of the workplace negative signs.

Imelda Tubi Tiamanda

Even in family homes, many young mothers are losing their lives at the hands of merciless men.

The attached photo is the latest addition of Papua New Guinean women who have lived and suffered the worse pain no words can explain.

This known domestic violence is not an isolated case, it's happening in the eyes of the communities, parents, leaders, churches, and everyone, yet we see nothing is happening in our communities. When there is continuous violence, it’s an indication of risk so, through the counselling sessions, lives can be saved. 

The victims themselves are also not taking proactive steps seeking support that can save their lives. They are living, sleeping and walking on flames of fire yet, they ignore it. 

Recognizing significant mental health needs in Papua New Guinea, we have established the Healthy Living Business- Counselling Works unit to provide counselling support.

Please, do feel free to contact us @  workscounselling@gmail.com

Number one homebased coronavirus treatment.

The world has no scientifically proven medical treatment. The doctors or the medical professionals are treating their patients asymptomatically.  In many parts of the world, many simple homebased treatments are used to get relief or stay free from coronavirus, and streaming is one of the homebased treatment. The following is a step by step on how to prepare a simple way to treat coronavirus.

Things you need.
1.A water jar.
2.A large thick bedsheet.
3.Clean running tape water.
4. Electricity or firewood (need match if firewood).
5.Any spicy plants/fruit nuts like garlic, ginger (etc.).
6.Chose any plant leaves like lemon leaves, orange, ginger (etc.), and any others leaves that you think suitable in your area.

7.A clear space – in front of the veranda.
8.Big dish plate enough to accommodate leaves, water and spicy plants.

Step by step streaming procedure.

1. Chose a clear space within your house to do streaming.
2.Crush all the spicy plants/fruit nuts.
3.Crush any plants leaves.
4.Put ALL the crushed plant leaves and spicy plants/fruit nuts in the dish.
5.Take the dish and position where you will do the streaming- ensure there is no obstruction.
6.Take the bedsheet to where you will do the streaming.
7. Fill the jar with cool water.
8.Bring it to boiling point – ensure water is very hot.
9.Take the hot jar water near your streaming area.
10.Sit down on the floor with your legs open wide.
11.Between your legs – not too close – do the way it suits you.
12.Bring the jar closer next to the dish.
13.Now cover yourself with the bedsheet so that the stream is not escaping through. Get someone in the house to assist with covering the bedsheet as soon as you pour the hot water into the dish. If by yourself, cover yourself with the bedsheet while sitting under the bedsheet, pour the hot water into the dish.

 Important things to take note.

1. When the stream is release from inside the dish while your whole body is covered with the bedsheet, either through mouth or nose inhale the hot stream air through, then release it out. I love doing that soon after eating some gingers, when the mouth is spicy.

2. You can stay in the bedsheet and breath a hot stream as long as you feel very hot, by the time the hot stream will be cool.
3. Remove the bedsheet, by this time all your body should in wet.
4. Wash your face with warm water, and empty the dish.
5. You can do it 2- 3 times a day. You should be well by this time.

 TAKE HOME NOTE:

·  You can do streaming at any time you wish.

· You can do streaming with pure hot water or with species, whichever way suites you.

COVID19 Installing New World Social Order

Two world events have shaken the foundation of the world. These events are September 11, 2001, that cracks the world trade centre, sending significant shocking waves across the globe to facelift the security measure. On other hand the 2019 coronavirus affected millions of people, affecting the global economy, social security (etc.) and imperative COVID19 merely installing New World Social Order.

The September 11, 2001 war represents the light and the dark. It was testing the level of security, which has caused panic and fear but the level of impact was manageable, and not a concern to the global community.

The emerging of coronavirus has caused significant damage to the social lives of the entire global village. Millions of people are victims of coronavirus, millions died, millions receiving treatments and the world is affected.

This article primarily focuses on the coronavirus and its impact on the social lives of people thus changing the social landscape of the world. 

Coronavirus is creating New World Social  Order.

The coronavirus has invented and then installed following New World Social Order.

1. Masking the face of the world.

2. Isolating the world from the world.

3. Distancing the world from each other.

4. Quarantining the world.

5.Handwashing the world.

Soon coronavirus vaccine will become compulsory to access government services, travel, jobs (etc.) so certificates will be issued to qualify for essential services.

So, as a result, everyone is going into the idea of Living a New Norm, an act of subjecting to the New World Social Order.

Due to significant social changes the world is under huge mental health stress, drop-in employment, loss of jobs, no new investment and development etc.

Will these be the world’s last events or some more to come? 

Be on guard! 

LIVING & DYING A HAPPY LIFE.

Happy life.

“my best read article, blessings to those who fall in love”.

The topic perhaps looks new or crazy one to readers.

Living healthy is engaging in habits that improves the quality of life and also maintaining those healthy habits. So, in our life, we strive and work hard to live healthy life. We work so much for the present life but forget about life after death. These readings provide what it means living a healthy happy life now and hereafter.

Okay! Sit back and read through!

The cross.

Before our deaths, our physical, mental and spiritual wellbeing needs to be prepared before travelling one of the two roads that we are all new.

It will surprise us with many surprises, like when we were kids out in the open world with our parents experiencing what the world offers in our new young eyes. Isn’t that being stunning experience? We will experience henceforth life with many wonders or the bad astonishments.

Before you were born into this world: Have you thought of coming into an existence on the face of this earth? Did you know what you are going to do or eat? And many other questions of what we are doing now and facing in our daily lives.

The simple answer is: NO!

That is why unborn has no idea of coming into an existence on the face of this earth, but existing man has the idea of creating the idea into a new life. 

So, the unborn idea has no control over the idea of creating their world, but once the idea is manifested into physical existence, he gets the authority to create the idea of the next world.

If I had known the existence of life on this earth; I should have either accept it or decline it - during the idea of fertilization that took place in my mother’s womb.

So, what is the idea?

The idea in this discussion, we refer to LOVE.

The father and the mother, through the idea of intimacy LOVE has brought the idea into physical manifestation – a life is born.

Hence, the father and mother have control over the idea of creating a new life. The absolute power and control rest in their hands.

Before you die out from the face of this world: Do you know what exists on the another side of the dead man’s world? Do you know what you will do?

Simple answer is YES!

Now the living soul has an idea. He learns this idea from his own idea – the conviction from his soul, which forms the faith that further reinforce by the teaching of GOD’s words, and the Holy Spirit that dwells within us.

The Word of GOD in the Hold Bible says Heaven & Hell is real.

So, now our idea rationalizes itself to confirm that there are two places every death will face and that is Heaven & Hell.

The idea of creating the idea into physical manifestation was in control of man. So, the choice of choosing the two world before us (Heaven and Hell) rests in man’s choice.

Do you want to go into the coffin box with a peace of mind or with lots of sadness and headaches?

Death is a blessing because we will leave all the pains and sufferings of this world behind and enter a new world, which we have not seen, yet we have the idea of Heaven and Hell.

Before we enter the next chapter of our life; how do we farewell our children? Are they happy to send us off to rest?  Have we given them security that will sustain their lives? Do they have a place in this challenging economic, social and political environment? They deserve a better life to enjoy the glory of this world offers.

Two things will unfold here: You will be happy to go for a enteral rest, and leaving with a broken heart. 

Firstly, the happiness will fill your soul because you have lived a life worth living. This is after accomplishing so many things in this world. You will be happy because you have nurtured and supported the idea you have brought into this world that they can survive the gravity of this world. After one has achieved the purpose of giving the idea a full life (education, investments, etc.), he feels he’s done, and happily wants to walk into the golden heavenly road with lots of songs in their hearts.

Heavenly rapture.

Truly, you deserve an everlasting peaceful rest (Heavenly rapture image#[i] ) in a golden home waiting in her glory.

Secondly, those who did not nurtured and supported their idea properly will find it uneasy to walk into the world of death. It will be a painful experience. Their minds will not be at peace.  You will walk head down into the coffin box. It will be a painful experience to depart from the loved ones. 

So, to avoid sadness while we are alive, we must strive to grow and nurture the idea that we have created. Then, you feel that you are done and needs to go into the world of death, but not yet...hold on, sir!

Sinners in pain in hell, 

The Heaven… or  Hell.
The Heaven and Hell are waiting to receive us. The Heaven and Hell is a choice of man. You want to choose the Heaven or Hell, it's all up to you.

But for me and my family, we have chosen Heaven as our home after life on earth, and we encourage ALL mankind to say YES to Heaven because life after the earth is everlasting.

In hell, life is ALL about everlasting pain and suffering. No one wants to feel pain, yes, no one! 

Heaven: It's all about happiness and living in GOD’s glory forever. Please, accept Jesus Christ as your personal Savior and say the following prayer.

Dear Heavenly Father God,

I am a SINNER and not worthy to call Your Holy Name. I am SORRY for ALL my SINS. Please FORGIVE all my SINS and give me a new life in Jesus Christ. I now accept Jesus Christ as my Lord and personal Savior.

I ask You to fill my heart with Your HOLY SPIRIT so that He can direct me to new a Holy Road.

In Jesus Christ, AME.

Are you living a life worth living?

IMPORTANT NOTE:
• Chose Heaven or Hell…the choice is in your hands.
• John 3:16. GOD truly LOVES you…I mean this Reader.


Please! Chose Jesus Christ as your personal SAVIOR.