How to deal with problems respectfully.

The man was created and placed on earth not only to enjoy what the world offers but to manage, govern the earth and also solve many issues. In the journey of our lives, all humankind encounters many challenges in their lives. Some of these issues can push us to extremely in a stressful situations.

Lack of awareness about the problems can increase the stress level. Many times we want goodies in our lives but never enjoy going through those depressing moments.

No one is free of earthly troubles. All mankind has and will have their time to go through the painful period despite all the happiness gain in their lives. When those moments arrive, stand firm as all things happen at the fullness of time because your time has just arrived, so face it with a respectful heart and mind.

Why do problems occur in our lives?
We can’t run away or hide from it but confront it. To deal with the challenges, it is critical to recognize the problem to understand it with respect, and then accept what is before you so that you deal with it.

Once you have gone through the painstaking refinery process of accepting it, this process should refill you with some wisdom of walking through your time.

The old must go for a new beginning. The closing of the first door provides an opportunity to open the next door. Losing your job brings you sadness, but landing a new job brings you happiness.

It's like sitting for a high school examination. You feel the pain of going through the notes, understanding them, putting yourself to self-tests, then walking into the exam room with some clouds over your mind, and then walking through the waves of result waiting time. The passing of the exam and acceptance to enroll at the college is a different feeling. Isn't it!

Look at yourself, we are made up of good and bad things. Sometimes you hate bad things inside you and feel good about the qualities and achievements you have gained in life.

We go through the happy hours and enjoy those moments very much then the dark door opens, so, we walk through it with lots of headaches, that's the meaning of life we are living on this earth. No one will be crowned with the glory of happiness forever, that's not earthly life. So, we must accept problem humbly and deal with a right frame of mind and support from other people, families or professionals.

Why all these things are happening in our lives? It’s a natural process for all mankind to go through the tape of testing time to qualify the worth of living a life on earth.

Testimony of Christian women.

One Sunday morning at the church, a woman was testifying.

“I love problems because the problem in life is good”.

"Without problem, I am not a woman”.

“I become a strong woman when my life is tested by the flames of fire (problems)”.

Wow! I thought. I didn’t understand, what she was talking about. Now, I understand the good things behind her testimony.

Before opening the new page in life, your old must be refined through the meticulous cleaning process, like gold getting its purity from a high intensified process. The new page is always a high call so to be elevated, you must pass the test of your time.

Who are we to be dressed with the glory of this world on the cheapest golden plate? We must share the suffering of this world to be strong men and women. You feel confident because you are sharpened by the situations to deal with a bigger task.

You ask any successful people. What does it mean to be a successful person in life? They will speak in many forms, but the summary will be ‘pain and tears’.

The drawing of darkness is for the opening of a brand-new day. So, stay strong because a brand-new day is coming your way with its happiness and blessings

Three ways to look at the problems:

(1). Respect your ability.
Respecting your ability is the first important step in dealing with any issues. No one will stand in for you, it’s you who stand tall in your problem. All the problems that happen in our lives will be within our abilities, and it won't be beyond our means.

Surely, you will have a conquering spirit when you respect yourself and find some steel during those stormy days.

Those who stood firm during those turbulent hours become dependable rock. We must appreciate that we are survivors of life. So, first, respect yourselves then the problem before you so that you have the solid ground to overcome negative waves.

Do not run away from the problem or sleep on it. First, leave the problems there so that you can bring yourself back.

Do some self-care stuffs like take time out to relax and sit back; do some deep breathing exercise; maybe walk down the road with your dog; find activities that you feel good about it, or engage in self-reflection. Go stand before the minor and speak to yourself that you can, yes, you can WIN.

(2). Respecting the problem and borrowing time.
Do not run away from the problems, but appreciate that it’s your time to walk through the darkness. Always be patient, and take time to see it through with the eagle eyes and minds. It’s highly important to respect the issues before you, and also give the trouble time so that it has a breathing space.

We all have experienced many crises in our lives in different forms and sizes. This is your time, so treat it with care. Remember, you are not alone.

When the light in the house is switched off, then, the power men are on the line is fixing the issues, so you need to stay relaxed because the issues of restoring power is beyond your control. The only thing you need to do is borrow the time so that power returns.

(3). Seek professional's help.
If you can’t help yourself see through the problems, seek support from friends or professionals like psychotherapists, psychologists.

IMPORTANT NOTE:

• The reason for darkness is for a new day, so stay strong through the storm.